Silicone Tsananin Jima'i na GaskiyaTa yaya kuke sake gano sha'awar kuruciyar ku? Amsar, na yi imani, tana cikin kalmar kanta. "Sha'awa" ta fito ne daga Hellenanci kuma tana nufin "Allah a ciki." Kuma abin da yake Allah a ciki shi ne kawai dawwamammen hankali na kauna - dacewar son kai (karɓar kai) kuma, daga wannan, ƙaunar wasu.Masu ƙwazo kuma suna son abin da suke yi, ba tare da la’akari da kuɗi ko mukami ko mulki ba. Idan ba za mu iya yin abin da muke so a matsayin sana'a na cikakken lokaci ba, za mu iya a matsayin aikin ɗan gajeren lokaci?Elizabeth Layton na Wellsville, Kan, tana da shekaru 68 kafin ta fara zane. Wannan aikin ya kawo ƙarshen baƙin ciki da ya addabe ta aƙalla shekaru 30, kuma ingancin aikinta ya sa wani mai suka ya ce, “An jarabce ni in kira Layton mai hazaka.” Elizabeth ta sake gano sha'awarta.Ba za mu iya samun damar ɓata hawaye kan “mai yiwuwa-beens” ba. Muna bukatar mu mayar da hawaye zuwa gumi yayin da muke bin "abin da zai iya zama."Muna bukatar mu rayu kowane lokaci da zuciya ɗaya, tare da dukkan hankalinmu - samun jin daɗin ƙamshin lambun bayan gida, hoton ɗan shekara shida, kyakkyawa mai ban sha'awa na bakan gizo. Ƙaunar rayuwa mai ɗorewa ce ke sanya ƙyalli a idanunmu, haske a cikin matakanmu da kuma santsi ƙuƙumma daga rayukanmu.Cikakken mutum ba ya “zurfi da yawa” kuma yana da kunci, wasa lokacin tattaunawa da wasu. Ya kuma guje wa giya da ruhohi, amma yana son cin nama mai kyau tare da giya mai sanyi Abin sha'awa, kashi 86 cikin 100 na wadanda aka zalunta sun ce suna son mutum mai hankali, yayin da kashi 64 cikin 100 suna son ya ce "Ina son ku" kawai lokacin da yake nufi. Yana da kwanciyar hankali sanin cewa mata ba su da zaɓe sosai, amma idan suna son kiyaye jerin abubuwan dubawa, masu buƙatun na iya samun ƴan buƙatun nasu. A cewar wani bambaro zabe a ofishin mu, maza ayan son mata stunningly kyau, low kiyayewa, gafara, fun da kuma ko da yaushe a cikin yanayi don gamsar da wani jima'i bukatun.

Muna da wasu 'yan tsana na jima'i a cikin Amurka, Jamus da Belgium sito a hannun jari, idan kuna buƙata don Allah ku ji daɗituntube mu kafin yin oda, godiya!?