Chikondi chidamenya

Chikondi chakhala nkhani yosatha m'mabuku, yokopa owerenga ndi mphamvu zake ndi zovuta zake. Mawu akuti “kukanthidwa ndi chikondi” amatanthauza kuthedwa nzeru kwa chikondi chakuya, nthaŵi zambiri mpaka kufika polephera kuganiza kapena kuchita zinthu mwanzeru. Mkhalidwe uwu wamaganizo wafufuzidwa ndi olemba ambiri m'mbiri yonse, kuchokera ku Shakespeare's Romeo ndi Juliet mpaka Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice.

Chitsanzo chimodzi chodziwika bwino cha anthu okhudzidwa ndi chikondi chimapezeka mu Emily Bronte's Wuthering Heights. Chilakolako chachikulu pakati pa Catherine Earnshaw ndi Heathcliff chimawawononga onse awiri, zomwe zimawatsogolera kupanga zisankho zopanda nzeru zomwe zimawapangitsa kugwa. Chikondi chawo n’chophatikizapo zonse moti chimawachititsa khungu kuona zotsatira za zochita zawo.

Chitsanzo china chodziwika bwino chikupezeka m’buku la The Great Gatsby la F. Scott Fitzgerald. Jay Gatsby amakopeka ndi Daisy Buchanan, ndikumupangitsa kukhala chithunzithunzi cha ungwiro. Kutengeka kwake ndi mkaziyo kumam’sonkhezera kudziunjikira chuma ndi kuchita maphwando opambanitsa, zonsezo n’cholinga chofuna kumubwezera. Komabe, chikondi chake kwa Daisy chimamuchititsa khungu kuti asawone zolakwa zake komanso zenizeni za ubale wawo.

Zitsanzo zimenezi zikusonyeza mmene kuchitiridwa zinthu mwachikondi kungatsekereze maganizo a munthu ndi kuwaloŵetsa m’njira zowononga. Chikondi chingakhale chisonkhezero champhamvu chimene chimagonjetsa kulingalira ndi kulingalira, kuchititsa anthu kuchita zinthu mopanda nzeru kapena kupanga zosankha zolakwika.

Pomaliza, lingaliro la kukhala okhudzidwa ndi chikondi lakhala likupezeka mobwerezabwereza m'mabuku kwa zaka mazana ambiri. Zimakhala chikumbutso chakuti ngakhale kuti chikondi chingakhale chokongola ndi chosintha, chilinso ndi kuthekera kwakutichititsa khungu ku zenizeni ndi kutisokeretsa ngati tilola kuti chitiwononge kotheratu.

Kumlingo waukulu muyeso wa mtendere wathu wamumtima umatsimikiziridwa ndi kuchuluka kwa momwe tingathere kukhala ndi moyo pakali pano. Mosasamala kanthu za zomwe zidachitika dzulo kapena chaka chatha ndi zomwe zingachitike kapena zisachitike mawa nthawi yomwe ilipo ndi pomwe muli - nthawi zonse.Pali chidole chabwino chamkazi wachi Japan chomwe chikudikirira, bwerani!