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Chidole cha ku Japan ChogonanaChikondi chimatanthauza kudziŵika ndi munthu amene ndimamukonda. Ngati ndimakukondani, nditha kukumverani chisoni ndikuwona dziko kudzera m'maso mwanu. Nditha kukuzindikirani ndikuwona dziko kudzera m'maso mwanu. Ndikhoza kukuzindikira chifukwa ndimatha kudziwona ndekha mwa iwe ndi iwe mwa ine. Kuyandikana kumeneku sikutanthauza ¡°pamodzi mosalekeza,¡± pa mtunda ndi kupatukana nthawi zina ndizofunikira mu ubale wachikondi. Kutalikirana ndipo kungalimbikitse mgwirizano wachikondi, ndipo kungatithandizenso kudzizindikira tokha, kuti titha kukumana m'njira yatsopano. Chikondi chimatanthauza kudzikonda. Nditha kukukondani ngati ndimakondadi, ndikuyamikira, ndikudzilemekeza ndekha. Ngati ndilibe kanthu, ndiye kuti zonse zomwe ndingakupatseni ndizopanda kanthu. Ngati ndidzimva kuti ndine wangwiro ndi wofunika mwa ine ndekha, ndiye kuti ndikhoza kukupatsani kuchokera mu chidzalo changa. Imodzi mwa njira zabwino kwambiri zomwe ndingakupatsireni chikondi ndikudzisangalatsa ndekha ndi inu.Chikondi cha Silikoni Chogonana Chenicheni chimaphatikizapo kuwona kuthekera mkati mwa munthu yemwe timamukonda. M’chikondi changa pa munthu wina, ndimamuona ngati munthu amene angakhale, ndikuvomerezabe kuti ndi ndani komanso zimene munthuyo ali. Kuwona kwa Goethe ndikofunikira pano: potenga anthu momwe alili, timawapangitsa kukhala oipitsitsa, koma powatenga ngati kuti ali kale zomwe ayenera kukhala, timawathandiza kuti akhale abwino. Timamaliza zokambiranazi za matanthauzo omwe chikondi chenicheni chili nacho kwa ife pogawana nawo lingaliro lochokera ku Fromm's Art of Loving (1956). Malongosoledwe ake a chikondi chokhwima akumveketsa bwino lomwe mikhalidwe yofunika ya chikondi chenicheni: Chikondi chokhwima ndicho mgwirizano pansi pa mkhalidwe wa kusunga umphumphu, umunthu wa munthu. M'chikondi chododometsa ichi chimachitika kuti anthu awiri amakhala amodzi koma amakhala awiri. Chidole Chachidole Chachikulu Chogonana