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Ena adakwezedwa kasanu, ena kamodzi kapena kawiri, magazini yofalitsidwa ndi British Psychological Society inatero. Kudzizindikira ¨C kapena kusowa ¨C sikunakhudze ntchito zatsopano za amuna, kafukufuku wochokera ku yunivesite ya George Mason ku Virginia anapeza. Kafukufuku wam'mbuyomu waku US adapeza kuti azimayi omwe amakakamira ofunsira ntchito ndi omwe sangayenerere kulembedwa ntchito. Dr Olivia Neill, yemwe adachita kafukufuku waposachedwa, amalangiza amayi odzidalira kuti asankhe ndi kusankha nthawi yokakamiza. Anati: Ngati akuwoneka kuti akukhala mwachimuna, atha kuwononga mwayi wawo wokwezedwa, ngakhale mikhalidwe imeneyi ingakhale yofanana ndi mamanenjala opambana. Kodi mumalowa muofesi, maso pansi, mapewa akugwa, ndikuyamba ntchito nthawi yomweyo? Ngati ndi choncho, ndiye kuti mukupeza kuti ogwira nawo ntchito akunyalanyazani? (pabwino) kapena kukupewani (poipa). Khalani ndi chizolowezi chomwetulira ndi kupereka moni kwa aliyense mukamafika m'mawa kapena kuyamba kusinthana kwanu. Ndizodabwitsa kuti ulemu wawung'ono uwu ungathetsere ubale wozizira kuntchito. Funsani ogwira nawo ntchito za zomwe amakonda ¨C nyimbo zomwe amakonda, makanema, mabuku, ndi zomwe amakonda. Kusonyeza chidwi chenicheni mwa iwo kudzawapangitsa kukhala omasuka pamene ali nanu. Kambiranani za moyo wanu kunja kwa ofesi ngati kuli koyenera. Zimenezi zidzakumbutsa anthu amene mumagwira nawo ntchito kuti poyamba ndinu munthu, osati wantchito kapena wolemba ntchito. kapena mukuganiza kuti ndiyenera kuchita bwanji ndi X? Kenako perekani chiyamiko chochokera pansi pa mtima kwa wopereka uphunguyo, ngakhale malingalirowo atakhala osathandiza.