M'malingaliro achikhalidwe cha anthu: amuna ali ndi chikhumbo champhamvu chogonjetsa akazi. Amuna amakhala okangalika kuposa akazi muubwenzi wawo. Nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi zosowa zochepa zamalingaliro. Adzakhala otengeka ndi akazi okongola mmodzi ndi mmodzi ndikulota akugonana nawo. Koma kodi amuna otere?
M'mafunso a Bowie Tsang, tinawona amuna awa. Anasiya akazi ndikusankha zidole zachikulire zogonana chifukwa adavulala m'maganizo.
Angakonde kukhala ndi chidole chachikulire chomwe chili chabwino koma chosasunthika, angakonde kuwononga ndalama zambiri kuti akweze chidole chawo chachikulu chogonana, angakonde kukhala m'malo awo ongopeka, sangakhalenso pafupi ndi akazi.
Kaŵirikaŵiri, tidzaona ubwino wakuthupi wa mwamuna. Angakhale ndi mkwiyo woipa umene ukhoza kuvulaza thupi la mkaziyo, koma timayiwala kuti iwo sachitiridwa mwachifundo. Amaopanso kuwukira kwa amayi.
Kupyolera mu "Mawa Asanafike", tikudziwa kuti zidole zachikulire zogonana zikhoza kukwezedwa ndipo zikhoza kukhazikitsidwa kwa anthu omwe mumawakonda, koma kukhala ndi chidole chogonana chomwe mungathe kukhazikitsa umunthu wanu kumatha kukhutiritsa kukhudzika kwamalingaliro aumunthu?
Mwamuna wina anati: “Ukwati wanga unatha zaka 15, ndipo pomalizira pake unatha. Panthawiyi ndinali wokhumudwa kwambiri. Sindinafune kukamba za maubwenzi ndi akazi enieni. Zidole zimenezi zinandipangitsa kukhala womasuka kwambiri ndipo zinandilola kuti ndisakhale ndi mphamvu pa amuna ndi akazi. Sindikuyang'ananso kalikonse.
Anthu angaganize kuti zinthu zamtunduwu ndi zachilendo, ndipo ndikuzimvetsa. Koma sadziwa kwenikweni momwe zimakhalira kugwiritsa ntchito zidole zachigololo za anthu akuluakulu. Ndi zidole zogonana, mudzapeza zomwe mukufuna. Izi zidzakupangitsani kukhala ndi chidwi kwambiri.
Ndilibe zongoganizira za zidole za akulu akulu. Ndikafuna kukhala ndi zidole zogonana, ndimangoyika mpando umenewo pakona, kukhala pampando ndikumwa mowa, kuwayang'ana, ndiyeno ndimadziwa yemwe amandikopa kwambiri.
Nthawi yotumiza: Nov-30-2023
