Mugihe uruganda rwibipupe rwimibonano mpuzabitsina rwakuze kandi rugenda rwiyongera, ubu hariho ubwoko bwibipupe byose biboneka kumasoko, harimo ibipupe binini byimibonano mpuzabitsina, ibipupe byigitsina byigituza, ndetse na shemale. None, ni ubuhe bwoko ukunda? Ngwino, reka dusuzume amahitamo atandukanye aboneka.

Ubwa mbere, reka turebe ibipupe binini byimibonano mpuzabitsina. Ibipupe byabugenewe kugirango bihuze nabakwega amabere manini. Ziza muburyo bwose no mubunini, ndetse bamwe bafite ibinure bifatika hamwe na arola. Ariko byagenda bite niba utari umufana wamabere manini? Aho niho hinjirira ibipupe byigitsina byigituza.

Nkuko izina ribigaragaza, ibipupe byakozwe namabere mato cyangwa ntamabere namba. Abantu bamwe basanga ibipupe byimibonano mpuzabitsina byigituza birushijeho kuba byiza, kuko bitanga isura nziza kandi yubusore. Ariko, hari nabashaka guhitamo androgynous isura, niho hinjirira ibipupe byimibonano mpuzabitsina ya transgender cyangwa shemale.

Ibipupe byimibonano mpuzabitsina ya transgender cyangwa shemale mubisanzwe bifite igitsina cyumugabo nigitsina gore, kandi birashobora gukoreshwa mubikorwa bitandukanye. Barashobora gutanga uburambe budasanzwe kubashaka kumenya igitsina cyabo no kugerageza ibitekerezo bishya.

Ubwanyuma, ubwoko bwibipupe byimibonano mpuzabitsina wahisemo bizaterwa nibyifuzo byawe bwite. Ni ngombwa gusuzuma ibintu byingenzi kuri wewe, nibizaguha umunezero mwinshi no kunyurwa.

Ku bijyanye no kugura igipupe cyimibonano mpuzabitsina, hari ibintu bike ugomba kuzirikana. Ubwa mbere, menya neza ko ugura muri sosiyete izwi ikoresha ibikoresho byiza kandi byubuhanga. Ibi bizemeza ko igipupe cyawe kizaramba kandi gitange uburambe bufatika.

Icya kabiri, tekereza ubunini n'uburemere bw'igipupe cyawe. Ukurikije imibereho yawe, urashobora guhitamo igikinisho gito cyangwa cyoroshye cyoroshye cyoroshye kwimuka no kubika. Kurundi ruhande, niba ufite umwanya wihariye wigipupe cyawe, urashobora kujya muburyo bunini kandi bufatika.

Hanyuma, ntutinye kugerageza no kugerageza ubwoko butandukanye bwibipupe. Urashobora gusanga ibyo ukunda bihinduka mugihe, cyangwa ko hari ibindi bintu wishimira utigeze utekereza mbere. Hamwe namahitamo menshi aboneka, ikirere ntarengwa mugihe cyo gushakisha igitsina no kwishora mubitekerezo byawe.

None, ni ubuhe bwoko bw'igipupe cy'igitsina ukunda? Waba ukwegerwa nudupupe twinshi twigitsina, ibipupe byigituza byigituza, cyangwa shemale igitsina? Ibyo ukunda byose, byanze bikunze hazaba igipupe kizaguha umunezero wuzuye no kunyurwa. Ngwino rero, reka dushakishe kandi tumenye igikinisho cyimibonano mpuzabitsina kuri wewe.