Igipupe Cyukuri Cyigitsina SiliconeNigute ushobora kuvumbura ishyaka ryubwana bwawe? Igisubizo, ndizera ko kiri mu ijambo ubwaryo. “Ishyaka” riva mu kigereki risobanura “Imana iri imbere.” Kandi icyo Imana iri imbere ni ukumva urukundo ruhoraho - urukundo rukwiye rwo kwikunda (kwiyakira) kandi, uhereye kuri, gukunda abandi.Abantu bashishikaye nabo bakunda ibyo bakora, batitaye kumafaranga cyangwa umutwe cyangwa imbaraga. Niba tudashobora gukora ibyo dukunda nkigihe cyigihe cyose? Umwuga, turashobora nkigihe gito? Avoka, nkumukuru wigihugu ushushanya amarangi,? Umubikira? Uyobora marato, umuyobozi ukora ibikoresho byo mu nzu.Elizabeth Layton w'i Wellsville, Kan, yari afite imyaka 68 mbere yuko atangira gushushanya. Iki gikorwa cyarangije ibibazo byo kwiheba byari bimaze nibura imyaka 30, kandi ireme ry'umurimo we ryatumye umwe mu banegura agira ati: “Numva nshishikajwe no kwita Layton umuhanga.” Elizabeth yongeye kubona ishyaka rye.Ntidushobora kwihanganira guta amarira kuri "abashobora-kubaho." Tugomba guhindura amarira ibyuya mugihe tugenda dukurikira "ibishobora-kuba."Tugomba kubaho buri kanya tubikuye ku mutima, hamwe n'ibyumviro byacu byose - kubona umunezero wo guhumurirwa n'impumuro y'ubusitani bw'inyuma, ishusho yerekana ishusho y'umwana w'imyaka itandatu, ubwiza buhebuje bw'umukororombya. Ni urukundo rwinshi rwubuzima rushyira urumuri mumaso yacu, igicucu muntambwe zacu kandi cyoroshya imyunyu iva mubugingo bwacu.Umugabo utunganye ntabwo "yimbitse cyane" kandi afite umusaya, gukina mugihe uganira nabandi. Yirinda kandi divayi n'imyuka, ariko akunda ibiryo byiza by'inyama hamwe n'inzoga ikonje Igishimishije, 86 ku ijana by'ababajijwe bavuze ko bashaka umugabo wumva, mu gihe 64 ku ijana bashaka ko avuga ngo “Ndagukunda” ari uko abishaka. Birahumuriza kumenya ko abagore badatorwa cyane, ariko niba bashaka kubika urutonde, bloke ishobora kuba ifite ibyifuzo bike byabo. Nk’uko ubushakashatsi bwakozwe ku biro byacu bubitangaza, abasore bakunda gukunda abagore beza cyane, kubungabunga bike, kubabarirana, kwishimisha kandi buri gihe mumutima kugirango bahaze ibyifuzo byose byimibonano mpuzabitsina.

Dufite ibipupe byimibonano mpuzabitsina muri Amerika, Ubudage nu Bubiligi mububiko, niba ubikeneye nyamunekatwandikire mbere yo gutanga itegeko, murakoze!?