Mubitekerezo gakondo bya societe: abagabo bafite icyifuzo gikomeye cyo gutsinda abagore. Abagabo bakora cyane kurusha abagore mubufatanye bwabo. Mubisanzwe bafite amarangamutima make. Bazatwarwa nabagore beza umwe umwe hanyuma barote kuryamana nabo. Ariko koko abagabo bameze gutya?
Mu kiganiro Bowie Tsang, twabonye aba bagabo. Basize abagore bahitamo ibipupe byigitsina bikuze kuko bakomeretse mumarangamutima.
Bahitamo kugira igipupe gikuze cyuzuye ariko kitimuka, bahitamo gukoresha amafaranga menshi kugirango bazamure igipupe cyabo gikuze, bahitamo kwibera mumigambi yabo ya fantasy, ntibazongera kuba hafi yabagore.
Kenshi na kenshi, tuzabona inyungu z'umubiri z'umugabo. Ashobora kugira umujinya mubi ushobora kwangiza umubiri wumugore, ariko twibagiwe ko batafashwe neza. Batinya kandi ibitero by'abagore.
Binyuze kuri "Mbere y'ejo", tuzi ko ibipupe bikuze byimibonano mpuzabitsina bishobora kuzamurwa kandi bigashyirwa kubantu ukunda, ariko gufata igipupe cyimibonano mpuzabitsina ushobora gushiraho imiterere yawe birashobora rwose guhaza ubuswa bwamarangamutima bwabantu?
Umugabo: “Ishyingiranwa ryanjye ryamaze imyaka 15, amaherezo riratandukana. Icyo gihe narihebye cyane. Ntabwo nashakaga kuvuga kubyerekeye umubano nabagore nyabo. Ibipupe byanteye kuruhuka cyane kandi reka ntagira igitutu kubitsina byombi. Nta kintu nshakisha.
Abantu barashobora gutekereza ko ibintu nkibi bidasanzwe, kandi ndabyumva. Ariko mubyukuri ntibazi icyo ari cyo gukoresha ibipupe byimibonano mpuzabitsina bikuze. Hamwe nudupupe twibitsina, uzabona icyo ushaka. Ibi bizagushimisha cyane.
Ntabwo nfite igitekerezo kijyanye no gukinisha igitsina gikuze. Iyo nshaka kubana nudupupe twimibonano mpuzabitsina, nshyira iyo ntebe mu mfuruka, nicara ku ntebe nywa byeri, ndabareba, hanyuma menye imwe ikurura cyane.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Ugushyingo-30-2023
