Oonodoli abanjengobomi besondo, abakwabizwa ngokuba ngoonodoli bokwenyani bokwabelana ngesondo okanye oonodoli bothando, baye bafumana ukuthandwa okubalulekileyo kwiminyaka yakutshanje. Aba nodoli benzelwe ukufana ngokusondeleyo nomzimba womntu kwaye banike amava okwenene ngokwesondo. Ngelixa abanye besithi aba nodoli banika ubuhlobo kwaye bazalisekisa iminqweno ethile, abanye babajonga njengabangafanelekanga nabathoba isidima.

Omnye umahluko ophambili phakathi koonodoli besondo obufana nobomi kunye nobudlelwane bokwenyani kukungabikho konxibelelwano lweemvakalelo. Kubudlelwane bokwenyani, ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo kudlala indima ebalulekileyo ekwakheni ukuthembana nokuqondana phakathi kwamaqabane. Nangona kunjalo, ngoonodoli bezesondo, akukho nto inokwenzeka yokunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo okanye ukuphindaphinda iimvakalelo.

Omnye umba omawuqwalaselwe ziimpembelelo ezisesikweni zokusebenzisa oonodoli abafana nobomi. Abagxeki baphikisa ngelithi aba nodoli bakhuthaza ukuba abafazi bajongelwe phantsi ngokubenza babe zizinto nje zokuzanelisa ngokwesini. Bakholelwa ukuba oku kunokubangela iimbono eziyingozi zesini kwaye kube negalelo ekwenziweni kwemizimba yabasetyhini.

Kwelinye icala, abaxhasi bathi aba nodoli babonelela abantu abanengxaki yobulolo okanye abanobunzima bokwenza ubudlelwane obusondeleyo ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo ezinje ngoxinzelelo lwentlalontle okanye ukukhubazeka ngokomzimba. Kubo, aba nodoli banikezela ngobuqabane ngaphandle kwesigwebo okanye ukwaliwa.

Ukuqukumbela, oonodoli abanjengobomi bezesondo banikezela ngesihloko esinzima kunye nemibono eyahlukileyo. Ngelixa zinokunika ulwaneliseko lwexeshana kwabanye abantu abafuna ulonwabo lomzimba okanye ubuqabane, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ifuthe labo elinokubakho kwimbono yoluntu ngobudlelwane kunye neenguqu zesini.