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Ixabiso leDoli leSex lokwenyaniWomelele kangakanani? Lo ngumbuzo onzima ukuwuphendula, nokuba uyindoda okanye ungumfazi. Kodwa, eneneni, ndifuna ukubuza¡uwachaza njani amandla akho? Uyazi njani imida yakho? Wazi njani ukuba unemalini?

Xa ukutyhala kufika ekutyhaleni, siye sifumanise ukuba sinamandla ngakumbi kunokuba sicinga. Yintoni Amandla? Amandla akasoloko emalunga namandla acocekileyo omzimba. Kunoko, imalunga namandla. Ukuziphatha. Qhuba. Imalunga namandla okwenza izinto. Ndiyazi abanye abantu abomelele ngokwengqondo, kodwa benza okuncinci kakhulu kwimisebenzi yabo. Kwaye ndiyabazi abanye abafumana umsebenzi unzima kakhulu, kodwa bayakwazi ukususa iintaba ngokuqhuba kwabo kunye nokusebenza nzima. Banamandla angaphakathi. Okubangela umdla ngakumbi, kukuba aba basebenza nzima banemveliso kaninzi abawuboni nomthwalo. Abantu ababukeleyo abamangalisi nje kuphela, kodwa bahlala bebuza. Uyenza njani?

Impendulo idla ngokubuya. Ndisebenza nzima kunabanye. Ngoko, kutheni abanye abantu bekwazi ukwenza okungakumbi? Yintoni ebanika ukuqhubela phambili? Yintoni ebanika amandla angakumbi? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba bazinike imvume yokwenza okungakumbi? Imida Yokuzibekela Imiqathango Into endiye ndayibona kukuba abantu abaninzi bamisela eyabo imiqathango. Banciphisa imveliso yabo ngokusekwe kwizithintelo ezizimele ngokwazo zesakhono kunye namandla abo. Ngamanye amaxesha le mida isekelwe kumava adlulileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha zisekwe kubuchule obubonwayo. Ngamanye amaxesha le mida isekelwe kwinto engekho. Andinakuyenza loo nto. (Ngoba?) Ininzi kakhulu loo nto kum. (Wazi kanjani?)

Iandinako ukwenza umgudu ongako. (Kuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba wenze njalo?) = Andikho krelekrele ngokwaneleyo ukusombulula loo nto. (Ngaba ungaqiniseka ukuba awukhange uzame?) Ke, siyayigqitha njani le mida? Sisomelela njani? Ukuyityhala¡ Abantu abaninzi bayahamba, kodwa abakho kufutshane nemida yabo. Ukuba ufuna ukomelela, kufuneka utyhale imida yakho. Ukuyityhala yinto efunekayo ukwandisa imida yakho. Kwijimu, abakhi bomzimba bafumanisa oku kwakudala. Kodwa, umgaqo ofanayo uyinyaniso xa kuziwa kumandla angaphakathi. Ukuziphatha kwaye uqhube. Ngaba ufuna ukuvavanya imida yakho? Zityhale. Vavanya imiqobo yakho ozibonayo ukuze ubone ukuba ichaneka kangakanani na.

Qinisekisa ukuba iinjongo zakho zingaphaya kancinane koko ucinga ukuba unokufezekiswa. Womelele kunokuba Ucinga Abantu abaninzi bawajongela phantsi amandla abo. Njengoko uqhubeka nosuku lwakho, cela umngeni kwisakhono sakho. Vavanya imida yakho. Zityhale, ukufumana imida yakho yokwenyani kwaye uchaze amandla akho. Xa ufumanisa ukuba yimalini onayo ngokwenene, unokumangaliswa nawe. Yeyiphi imida ozibekele yona? Yintoni ekufuneka uyityhale? Ufumanise nini ukuba womelele kunokuba ubucinga?