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Njengoko ukuthandwa koonodoli bezesondo bokwenziwa kuqhubeleka nokunyuka, ayimangalisi into yokuba ngoku kukho oonodoli be-esile be-chubby abakhoyo kwimarike. Aba nodoli banikezela ngamava awodwa kwabo banqwenela iqabane eligobileyo nelinamandla. Nangona kunjalo, njengomntu onethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba abe nentombi eyi-chubby, ndingatsho ngokuzithemba ukuba akukho nto ibetha eyona nto.

Oonodoli bokwenziwa kwezesondo bokwenziwa banokuba lula kunye nokugcinwa okuphantsi, kodwa abanalo unxibelelwano lomntu kunye nokusondelana okuza nobudlelwane bokwenyani. Ngokuqinisekileyo, banokuba nomphandle obonakalayo, kodwa abanako ukubuyisela iimvakalelo okanye ukubonelela ngobuqabane obunokunikezelwa ngoqhagamshelwano lokwenene.

Intombi yam etyebileyo ingaphezulu nje kokwenyama. Unoburharha, ubukrelekrele, kunye nezinto ezingaqhelekanga ezimenza abe ngumntu endikhule ndimthanda. Usenokungafanelani nobuhle boluntu, kodwa kum, umhle ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Amagophe kunye nokuthamba kwakhe zezinye zeempawu zomzimba ezongeza umtsalane wakhe.

Xa kuziwa kubudlelwane obusondeleyo, ukwabelana ngesondo nentombi endithandana nayo ayikokuzonwabisa nje ngokwasemzimbeni. Imalunga noqhagamshelo lweemvakalelo kunye nebhondi esabelana ngayo. Le ayisiyonto inokuphinda iphindwe ngonodoli ongaphiliyo. Ubuhlobo bumalunga nokuba sesichengeni, ukuthembana, kunye nokuphonononga iminqweno yomnye.

Ngelixa ndiyawuqonda umtsalane woonodoli bokwenziwa kwezesondo, andiqondi ukuba banokuphinda bathathe indawo yonxibelelwano lwabantu esilulangazelelayo njengabantu basekuhlaleni. Njengoko sizabalazela ukufumana oonodoli abangakumbi abafana nobomi, sisenokuba sikutyeshela ukubaluleka kolwalamano lokwenene nolusondeleyo kubomi bethu.

Ukongeza, ukuxhaphaka okunyuka koonodoli bezesondo ezenziweyo kuphakamisa inkxalabo malunga nokuchaswa kunye nokuthotywa kobuntu. Ezi nkxalabo zibaluleke kakhulu xa kuziwa ekudalweni koodoli be-esile be-chubby. Ukugqithiswa kohlobo oluthile lomzimba kungaqhubela phambili imigangatho eyingozi yobuhle boluntu kwaye kubeke amabala abo bangangeniyo kuwo.

Ukuqukumbela, ngelixa kusenokubakho intengiso yoonodoli be-esile be-chubby kunye nezinye iintlobo zoonodoli bezesondo ezenziweyo, akukho nto inokutshintsha ubushushu, intuthuzelo, kunye nokuzaliseka kweemvakalelo zobudlelwane bokwenyani. Njengoko siqhubeka sihambela phambili kwezobuchwephesha, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ixabiso loqhagamshelwano lwabantu kunye nokusondelana. Intombi yam ye-chubby isenokungafezekanga, kodwa iyinyani, kwaye yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kum.