Kwingcinga yemveli yoluntu: amadoda anomnqweno onamandla wokoyisa abafazi. Amadoda asebenza ngakumbi kunabasetyhini kwintsebenziswano yabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo banezidingo ezincinci ngokweemvakalelo. Baza kuthathwa ngabafazi abahle omnye emva komnye kwaye baphuphe ngokulala nabo. Kodwa ngaba ngokwenene amadoda anje?
Kudliwanondlebe lukaBowie Tsang, sabona la madoda. Bashiya abafazi kwaye bakhetha oonodoli bezesondo abadala ngenxa yokuba benzakele ngokwasemphefumlweni.
Bakhetha ukuba nonodoli omdala ofezekileyo kodwa ongashukumiyo, bangathanda ukuchitha imali eninzi ukuphucula unodoli wabo wabantu abadala, bangathanda ukuhlala kwindawo yabo yephupha, abasayi kuphinda basondele kubasetyhini.
Ngokufuthi, siya kuyibona ingenelo yokwenyama yendoda. Usenokuba nomsindo ombi onokubangela umonakalo kumzimba webhinqa, kodwa siyalibala ukuba abaphathwa ngokuthantamisa. Bayoyika nohlaselo lwabasetyhini.
Ngokusebenzisa "Ngaphambi Ngomso", siyazi ukuba oonodoli abadala bezesondo banokuphuculwa kwaye banokusetwa kumntu owuthandayo, kodwa ukubamba unodoli wesondo onokuthi umise ubuntu bakho kunokwanelisa ngokwenene ukungabi namvakalelo komntu?
Enye indoda: “Umtshato wam wathabatha iminyaka eli-15, yaye ekugqibeleni waqhawuka. Ndandidandatheke kakhulu ngelo xesha. Ndandingafuni nje ukuthetha ngobudlelwane nabafazi bokwenyani. Aba nodoli bandenze ndakhululeka kakhulu kwaye bandivumela ukuba ndingabinaxinzelelo kuzo zombini izini. Andisajonganga nto.
Abantu banokucinga ukuba olu hlobo luyinto engaqhelekanga, kwaye ndiyayiqonda. Kodwa ngokwenene abazi ukuba kunjani ukusebenzisa aba nodoli abadala. Ngoonodoli besondo, uya kufumana into oyifunayo. Oku kuya kukwenza ube nomdla kakhulu.
Andinayo nayiphi na ingcamango malunga noonodoli abadala. Xa ndifuna ukuhlala nonodoli bocansi ndimane ndibeka eso situlo ekoneni, ndihlale esitulweni ndisele utywala, ndibajonge, ndabe ndisazi ukuba yeyiphi eyona inditsalayo.
Ixesha lokuposa: Nov-30-2023
