Ukuba semathandweni

Uthando belulokhu luyindikimba engaphelelwa isikhathi ezincwadini, lukhanga abafundi ngamandla nobunkimbinkimbi balo. Igama elithi “ukushaywa uthando” libhekisela emuzweni okhungathekile wokuba sothandweni olujulile, ngokuvamile kuze kube seqophelweni lokungakwazi ukucabanga noma ukwenza izinto ngendlela enengqondo. Lesi simo somqondo sihlolwe ababhali abangenakubalwa kuwo wonke umlando, kusukela ku-Romeo noJuliet kaShakespeare kuya ku-Pride and Prejudice kaJane Austen.

Isibonelo esisodwa sakudala sabalingiswa abathanda uthando sitholakala ku-Emily Bronte's Wuthering Heights. Uthando olujulile phakathi kuka-Catherine Earnshaw no-Heathcliff luyabadla bobabili, lubaholele ekwenzeni izinqumo ezingenangqondo ezigcina ziholele ekuweni kwabo. Uthando lwabo luhlanganisa yonke into kangangokuthi lubenza bangaboni imiphumela yezenzo zabo.

Esinye isibonelo esiphawulekayo sitholakala encwadini kaF. Scott Fitzgerald ethi The Great Gatsby. U-Jay Gatsby uthatheka ngo-Daisy Buchanan, okumenza abe yisibonelo sokuphelela. Ukuthatheka kwakhe ngaye kumenza aqongelele ingcebo futhi enze imibuthano ewubukhazikhazi, konke lokhu ezama ukumbuyisela emuva. Nokho, uthando lwakhe ngoDaisy lumphuphuthekisa ekuboneni amaphutha akhe kanye neqiniso lobuhlobo babo.

Lezi zibonelo zibonisa ukuthi ukushaywa uthando kungafiphaza kanjani ukwahlulela komuntu futhi kuholele abantu ezindleleni ezilimazayo. Uthando lungaba amandla anamandla ahlula ukucabanga nokuhluzeka kwengqondo, abangele abantu benze izinto ezingenangqondo noma benze izinqumo ezimbi.

Sengiphetha, umqondo wokushaywa uthando ube yindikimba ephindaphindayo ezincwadini amakhulu eminyaka. Kusebenza njengesikhumbuzo sokuthi nakuba uthando lungaba luhle futhi luguqule, lunamandla okusiphuphuthekisa eqinisweni futhi lusikhohlise uma siluvumela ukuba lusiqede ngokuphelele.

Ngokwezinga elikhulu isilinganiso sokuthula kwethu kwengqondo sinqunywa ukuthi kungakanani esikwaziyo ukuphila kulesi sikhathi samanje. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekeni izolo noma ngonyaka odlule nalokho okungenzeka noma kungenzeki kusasa isikhathi samanje yilapho ukhona - njalo.Kukhona unodoli wesifazane waseJapan ophelele olindile khona lapha olindile, woza!