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Njengoba ukuduma konodoli bokwenziwa kocansi kuqhubeka nokukhuphuka, akumangazi ukuthi manje sekukhona onodoli bocansi abayizimbongolo abashubile abatholakala emakethe. Labo nodoli banikeza isipiliyoni esiyingqayizivele kulabo abafisa uzakwethu ogobile futhi ozinikele. Kodwa-ke, njengomuntu onenhlanhla yokuba nentombi eyisidudla, ngingasho ngokuzethemba ukuthi akukho okwehlula okwangempela.

Onodoli bokwenziwa kocansi bangase bafaneleke futhi bangondleki kahle, kodwa abanalo ukuxhumana kwabantu nokusondelana okuza nobuhlobo bangempela. Impela, bangase babe nengaphandle elingokoqobo, kodwa abakwazi ukubuyisela imizwa noma banikeze ubungane obunganikezwa uxhumano lwangempela.

Intombi yami eyisidudla ingaphezu nje kwento engokwenyama. Unamancoko, ukhaliphile, nezinto ezihlekisayo ezimenza abe umuntu engikhule ngimthanda. Angase angalingani nobuhle bomphakathi, kodwa kimi, muhle ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Amajika nokuthamba kwakhe ngezinye zezici zomzimba ezengeza ekuthandeni kwakhe.

Uma kukhulunywa ngokusondelana, ucansi nentombi yami akukhona nje ukuzijabulisa ngokomzimba. Kumayelana nokuxhumana ngokomzwelo nesibopho esabelana ngaso. Lokhu akuyona into engaphindwa unodoli ongaphili. Ukusondelana kumayelana nokuba sengozini, ukwethembana, kanye nokuhlola izifiso zomunye nomunye.

Nakuba ngikuqonda ukukhanga konodoli bokwenziwa kocansi, angicabangi ukuthi bangangena esikhundleni sokuxhumana kwabantu kwangempela esikulangazelelayo njengabantu abahlalisanayo. Njengoba silwela ukuthola onodoli abengeziwe abanjengokuphila, singase singakunaki ukubaluleka kobudlelwane bangempela, obuseduze ekuphileni kwethu.

Ukwengeza, ukwanda kokuvama konodoli bokwenziwa kocansi kuphakamisa ukukhathazeka mayelana nokungahloniphi kanye nokwehliswa kobuntu. Lokhu kukhathazeka kubaluleke kakhulu uma kuziwa ekudaleni onodoli bocansi abayizimbongolo. Ukuhunyushwa kohlobo oluthile lomzimba kungaqhubeza izindinganiso zobuhle bomphakathi eziyingozi futhi kukhiphe isigcwagcwa kulabo abangafaneleki kuzo.

Sengiphetha, nakuba kungase kube khona imakethe yonodoli bembongolo abashubile nezinye izinhlobo zonodoli bokwenziwa kocansi, akukho okungangena esikhundleni sokufudumala, ukunethezeka, nokugcwaliseka ngokomzwelo kobudlelwane bangempela. Njengoba siqhubeka nokuthuthuka kwezobuchwepheshe, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukubaluleka kokuxhumana kwabantu nokusondelana. Intombi yami eyisidudla ingase ingaphelele, kodwa ingokoqobo, futhi yilokho okubaluleke kakhulu kimi.